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TOP TEN DATING TIPS
AND ANSWERS TO FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS |
When completing your profile ensure that you enter as much
information about yourself as possible as well as what you are
looking for in a person. Inside your heart you will have desires
about your perfect partner. They may have black hair and have blue
or brown eyes, or you may have a height preference. All these things
count when people search profiles. The more you write in your
profile the higher the chances of someone finding you in their
searches, and coming to you. After all, they know what they are
looking for just like you.
Place a recent photo of yourself on your profile. It is important to
place a picture on your profile because it will dramatically improve
the amount of viewers you have. You are therefore more likely to
meet a person attracted to you and in a similar way you are more
likely to contact a person who displays a picture that you find
attractive.
After registration search all profiles and send messages to people
you like the look of, or whose profile appeals to you. It's a bit
like someone coming towards you down the street you like the look
of. but they walk by and you continue on your way. You don't say
anything because they may be married or someone else's partner for
example. People who use this service are actively looking for a new
partner and letting them know you are interested in them is easy and
has no embarrassment. After all, what is the worst they can say...?
No? - well nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Read messages immediately and more importantly reply to them. It is
important to regularly check your profile for messages sent to you.
This is because spontaneity is a big part of meeting people online
and very much part of the excitement. Everyone loves to get
messages, especially from someone who fancies them. The message you
read may be from a person who will bring true love, happiness and
fulfillment to your life, so go on read it immediately!
Signup! Being a fully paid member is important because without
signing up, you are essentially mute, and are not able to
communicate with other potential contacts. What good is it if you
see the ideal partner walking down the street, but your mouth is
sewn shut?!
Chat rooms are great fun when they are busy and we suggest all
interested parties should log on at 9pm every night. Around this
time is when the chat rooms are busiest, so come along and be part
of the banter. Abusive and offensive content is filtered to provide
a clean, polite, friendly environment to best allow new
relationships to be forged.
Do your research. While we try to share as much information between
users as possible, both you and ourselves have no way of knowing
what the people that are signed up are actually like. Before giving
anyone your contact details or arranging to meet them, build up a
nice rapport, start to feel like you know the person well, and make
sure you feel comfortable with them - do you trust them? This
service provides a place for you to come and find people "per se"
anonymously - your details such as email and address are not
disclosed unless you give them out. When you decide to give someone,
who you feel suited to you, your personal contact details, start by
using your personal email address.
Meeting People Assuming you feel comfortable with a person, you may
decide it's time to meet. If you do arrange to meet someone, ALWAYS
tell a member of your family or close friend where and when you are
going to meet. NEVER arrange to meet a person at your home on the
first meeting, especially when you are meeting them alone. Make the
first rendezvous somewhere public. When you meet someone for the
first time and alcohol is available - refrain from drinking. If you
must drink, then drink from a bottle and keep your thumb over the
top of the bottle. If you go to the toilet, take your drink with you
or get yourself a new bottle when you return to your meeting - err
on the side of caution. If you find yourself in a situation that you
feel uncomfortable with, never leave the public place. Call a family
member or good friend and have them come and meet you. You could let
them know prior to you meeting that you may need to call them later.
If any harm is down to you or you receive threats of harm always
report these events to Crime stoppers on: 0800 555 111 all calls are
treated confidentially. Please inform us as well if any other member
acts irrationally toward you if you meet them.
Be persistent. You are not likely to meet the love of your life on
your first date, so don't expect too much, and have the confidence
to be honest if the person you meet is not right for you. Equally if
your date says they do not want to meet again, just accept it. No
one should be disappointed or feel guilty. Just part on friendly
terms, and remember there are many more potential people for you to
meet through this website.
Spellchecking. If you are worried about making spelling mistakes,
write out your messages in a word processor first, then copy and
paste into your message box.
Make full use of the service. The longer your subscription, the
cheaper the service is to use. Think a bit down the line, and rather
than simply purchasing one month at a time, save yourself money and
purchase a whole year. Don’t forget to keep your profile information
current, and update your photo regularly to maximize the chances of
your success
WARNING:
Beware of people trying to obtain your address or contact details,
take things slowly and never pay monies to people. Report any person
that is trying to use this site for fraud or any other reason other
than genuine dating. If you are talking with anyone in another
country take extra care as people are not always who they say they
are.
There are many thousands of people who use this service; many have
found lasting love and happiness. Be part of it, make some happiness
for yourself by joining today and contacting singles in your area.
Good luck, we are with you every step of the way.
Give us feedback
Let us know what you think of our website, and how you get on with
the site and potential matches. We are here to help. We want to know
about your successes (and problems if you have any), and we want to
improve the site so that it gives you what you are looking for.
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